“How do you approach studying for exams in a way that feels calming or therapeutic rather than stressful?”
Here is what 22 thought leaders had to say.

To make studying feel more calming, start by writing down what about the exam is making you anxious, since naming the fear often reduces its intensity. Next, write the result you are aiming for, such as a specific score or simply feeling prepared walking into the room. Then create a simple action plan with clear, small steps for what you will study and when, so your brain is not carrying an undefined to-do list all day. This approach helps because anxiety is often anticipated fear, and planning ahead gives that fear less room to grow. When you notice stress rising during a study session, return to your plan and focus on completing the next small step rather than the entire exam at once.

Dr. Peyman Tashkandi, Double Board Certified Child, Adolescent & Adult Psychiatrist, Dr. Peyman Tashkandi
The first step toward productive studying is changing your focus from memorizing as much information as possible to creating focused time for working with the material. For me, I like to break my studying into smaller, predictable intervals (25-40 minutes), followed by a short break. I also use the same study session to study one subject at a time, summarize the main points using my own words, or teach the subject out loud as if I were teaching it to someone. This helps to slow down my studying to be a more mindful process vs. rushing to complete everything all at once.
Changing the environment in which you do your studying from an intense and distracting one to a supportive one can help as well. For example, listening to calming background music, having a clean table, drinking water or tea, and having a clear study plan for the day can all reduce the amount of your anxiety. Furthermore, focusing on completing smaller amounts of work (e.g., reviewing one chapter of a textbook or completing five math problems) rather than constantly evaluating how much you still have not accomplished will help create a feeling of success for you that, over time, will feel more calming and therapeutic!

Mike Khorev, SEO and AI Visibility Consultant, Mike Khorev
I treat studying like keeping my desk clean. A schedule and a tidy spot cut the stress immediately. I noticed that organizing my notes and stepping outside for a minute makes the work feel almost peaceful. Try clearing your space before diving in and pick small goals. You will see progress without feeling buried under the pile of work.

Justin Carpenter, Founder, Jacksonville Maids
Most people try to memorize everything when they study. They highlight, reread and quiz themselves with isolated facts and then wonder why they are so anxious when they walk into the exam room. The problem is not the material. It’s the approach. Memorization puts you in a constant state of trying to hold things in place and that feeling of things slipping is exactly where the stress of exams comes from.
The approach I came up with, initially in military intelligence training and later in preparation for the Google Analytics and HubSpot certification exams, was to treat study sessions as pattern mapping rather than information storage. The difference sounds small, but it completely changes the experience. Rather than the ‘what do I need to remember’ questions, I’d try asking ‘how does this connect to something I already understand’. Every new concept got stuck to a mental framework that I already possessed. Nothing floated loose.
Here’s what that exactly looked like. When preparing for the Google Analytics Certification, I needed to understand the differences between sessions, users and page Views. Traditionally, you would just memorize the three different definitions as best as you can so they will “stick”. Instead, I linked all three to a framework I had from intelligence work: asset, contact period, and individual interaction. A user is your asset. A session is your contact period, which is the time frame during which the person is actively involved. A pageview is the individual interaction that occurs within that window. (I already had that three-layer structure in my head. All I did was dump new vocabulary onto something that would be familiar.) The definitions no longer consisted of three isolated facts to retrieve but one pattern that I already knew with new labels on top. That’s what made studying feel like recognition instead of pressure.

Chris Kirksey, Founder & CEO | SEO Strategist, Direction.com
To make studying feel calming, separate your self-worth from the exam outcome and treat study sessions as practice rather than a judgment of your value. I have observed that high achievers often tie self-worth to external metrics like compensation and titles, and that same pattern makes exams feel like endless pressure. Shift focus to small, manageable learning goals and simple routines that reinforce growth and recovery instead of perfection. If pressure remains intense, seek confidential professional support that specializes in high achievers to help change that cycle.

Elijah Fernandez, CTO, CEREVITY
I create an intimate environment by using low light. I watch gentle rain and wear casual clothing. I plan time in each day to take long breaths. I feel like I can manage my tasks when I break them into many short, easy steps. The fact that my 2026 studies are a method of self-care has helped me stay calm.

Darcy Turner, Founder, Investor Home Buyers
For my master’s exams, I ditched the long library sessions and studied in short bursts with walks in between. I realized econometrics clicked when I tied it to real stories instead of just memorizing formulas. It turns out that staying curious works way better than stressing over perfect recall. Try mixing your study sessions with things you actually like doing. It sounds counterintuitive, but it actually makes studying feel pretty therapeutic.

Runbo Li, CEO, Magic Hour
The moment I decided to do so changed the way I approached my examination preparations completely when I was still a student. Instead of staying at my desk and isolating myself, I decided to record my most challenging notes in a calm and steady voice. I found a nearby park, put on my headphones, shut the world around me, and took a leisurely walk around the park. The rhythm of walking and the repetition of my voice helped me focus on the complex concepts I had been trying to wrap my head around. This method of studying is effective as it eliminates stress since it combines physical activity with information retention, which activates the mind and the body.
As I walked, I found that distractions and worries disappeared. I realized that there was something to the concept of flow when I was not confined to one spot. It is recommended to make this a habit before the actual examinations. Set aside thirty minutes to record your notes and listen to them as you walk. This not only works as an effective way to retain information but also gets you into a meditative state of mind.

Will Yang, Growth Lead, Chronicle Technologies
I treat studying like a real estate deal. I map out a plan and stick to the practical steps. Using a checklist helps me see what I’ve done, so it feels like checking boxes rather than staring at a huge pile of work. Managing teams taught me that breaks actually help you remember things. Don’t aim for perfection. Just keep moving and give yourself a small reward when you finish a section.

Ryan Dosenberry, CEO, Crushing REI
I’ve spent years teaching dental students, and steady, low-key review sessions really do work best. When everyone gets tense, we just shift to hands-on practice or talk it out together. It breaks the tension. Honestly, that calm, social approach helps students remember the material way better than cramming alone ever could. It just sticks.

Dr. Nick Palmer, Founder, Orthodontics.net
My strategy for preparing for an exam is to take away the pressure and make it a normal process. I like to break down what I’m studying into small chunks and work through it in short periods with a clear beginning and end. This helps prevent it from feeling like too much work. I also try to minimize distractions and monitor my progress to see what I have gotten through. The more a study session flows normally, the less it feels like a stressful event.

Dario Ferrai, Co-Founder, Openclaw VPS
I have kept busy with service calls so studying had to be accomplished during my day without feeling overwhelmed. What worked for me is the following.
Keep stress out of studying by not feeling like there is a mountain to climb. I divide my material into small bite sizes of about 20 to 30 minutes. Use a timer so you don’t overstay your welcome. Commit yourself to that chunk of time and then walk away for a couple of minutes. Repeat this as often as you like.
The constant back and forth allows you to digest information without becoming bored. 3 or 4 rounds with short breaks in a quiet room can help you learn a lot. I used this method to study for my certifications with a full-time job. You start to see progress because you have a definite end to your studying. You’ll feel more refreshed than stressed out.

Craig Focht, Cofounder & CEO, All Pro Door Repair
There’s something immensely therapeutic about deep focus. I think when you actually get to that state of flow and are entirely immersed in the study material, it ceases to be overwhelming. In fact, most emotions cease to distract you at that point, and it’s almost meditative.
I find it a lot easier to dissect every concept, so much so that it starts to feel like piecing a puzzle together, one that I actually enjoy. And I’m not worried about the outcome or the end result because I’m more preoccupied with asking questions about the material. Why something works, how two ideas connect, and what the underlying principle is. It begs you to be more curious you become about those connections, and that’s when it’s easiest to stay engaged.

Alex Freeburg, Owner, Freeburg Law
To approach studying for exams in a calming and therapeutic way, I recommend creating a structured routine that prioritizes balance. Begin by breaking your study material into small, manageable sections and tackling one section at a time. Utilize techniques like the Pomodoro method, focusing deeply for 25 minutes, followed by a 5-minute break. Incorporate grounding practices such as deep breathing at the start of each session to calm the nervous system.
Equally important is scheduling time for restorative activities like walking or listening to music, which can enhance focus and reduce stress. These intentional habits not only help cultivate a sense of control but also make the process less overwhelming.

Kristie Tse, Psychotherapist | Mental Health Expert | Founder, Uncover Mental Health Counseling
Rewarding myself after study sessions is what makes the whole process less punishing. After about 45 minutes of focused reading, I give myself something small (a cup of tea, a short walk, or even ten minutes doing something I actually enjoy working on). In my experience, the brain will retain information more easily if it associates the study time with something good at the end of the session.
A 3-to-1 ratio works well for me: three blocks of focus, one proper break. Studying was no longer stressful once I stopped thinking of it as something to get through. The reward doesn’t need to be big. It just has to be real and consistent.

Patricia Curts, Managing Director, The Mexican Collection
Studying stops feeling stressful the moment you stop treating it like an emergency.
Most students cram because they wait too long to start. Everything piles up, the exam date gets close, and the only option left is a five-hour session the night before, which leaves them exhausted and anxious. In my experience, that approach doesn’t just hurt performance; it makes the whole process feel miserable every single time.
The fix is treating study sessions like scheduled appointments. Not “I’ll study when I have time” but a specific block on a specific day for a specific topic. When I started doing this, each session became short enough to feel manageable and focused enough to actually stick.
Here’s another thing I’ve noticed. Spreading material across several days means you review each concept more than once without ever spending more than 30 to 45 minutes on it in a single sitting. That repetition builds retention better than cramming does, and the shorter sessions make it far easier to stay calm throughout.

Rengie Wisper, Marketing Lead, Escrowly.com
I break complex topics into smaller chunks so I can focus without getting distracted. Since I work in marketing, I use mind maps and visuals to organize my notes. It makes reviewing much easier. Checking off what I’ve learned stops me from stressing out. But walking or stretching between sessions helps the most. It clears my head so the work doesn’t feel impossible.

Polina Haryacha, CEO, Cloutboost
To make the study process more therapeutic, I suggest the so-called “Curated Sanctuary” approach, which would make your session more of a ritual than a task. Start by closing the tabs of your mind by having a five-minute brain dump of everything that causes you stress, and then empty your desk of anything that does not relate to one topic to remove visual clutter. Instead of facing a daunting textbook and passively reading it, you can use active recall, which is to read out loud to a fictitious student; it will provide a deep grounding by having to articulate the complex material using your own words. Use ambient noises with your low-level, reasonably safe sonic mask, and take your slides as literal rewards—something as simple as a 10-minute walk or a cup of tea, rather than just checking Instagram. You make learning an ordeal instead of a test, and with the beat of learning as the song, you turn the library into a place of gain.

Mark Tipton, CEO & Founder, Aspire
Hand writing down notes provides a grounding sensory experience that naturally calms down the nervous system through repetitive physical motion.
Physical paper helps with eyestrain and headaches associated with working at a computer. In fact, letter formation helps with memory retention while slowing down the speed of intake to a speed that the brain can easily work with without feeling flooded. Using different colored pens for different topics may help make material feel less overwhelming. Logic flows better on paper. The process charts out chaotic data.
More often than not, slowing down reviewing speed advances information stickers with steady confidence.
Breaking up a large syllabus into tiny bite-sized goals of three pages makes daunting goals seem achievable in just one afternoon of steady work. This being said, this precludes the panic associated with massive workloads. Explaining out loud to a pet helps to confirm knowledge without fear of judgment and the stress of formal testing. It works every single time.

Travis Hoechlin, CEO, RizeUp Media
Taking the exam for my Cornell certification in customer experience has taught me something I did not think was possible. While I was studying for it and handling the full load of clients it nearly broke me, but that was entirely of my own doing, not because the material was difficult, but because I kept approaching each study period as a work sprint. That cycle compounds fast.
The change occurred with me because I stopped trying to study more and started studying in a way that my brain could actually absorb. One space designated for this purpose, at the same time every day, and nothing else but studying. I saw that my retention actually improved noticeably within two weeks as I added no new hours into the day, but took away the environment that had been fighting my focus.
Short periods with real rest in between them are better than grinds at any time. I saw the same pattern with customers who were recuperating from burnout. The ones that did rest on purpose retained more and got back faster.

Sara Cemin, Head of Customer Relations, Helio Cure
Making the perfect study snacks is the first step towards preparing for an exam in a relaxed manner. Undoubtedly, studies have shown that some foods can reduce anxiety and tension. Eating and drinking foods and drinks will only make you feel more stressed if you’re feeling overwhelmed while staring at revision notes. Instead, eating a balanced diet can improve your mental clarity and help you maintain your calm. Emotional equilibrium is supported by mood-enhancing snacks, including sunflower seeds, pistachio nuts, dark chocolate, pumpkin seeds, and blueberries. After a stressful task, consuming green or black tea can also assist in reducing cortisol levels.

Dr. REGINALD LIEW MBBS (Hons, UK), PhD (London), Senior Consultant Cardiologist, Harley Street Heart & Vascular Centre
I study for exams in a calming way by turning my notes into simple visual diagrams that map ideas and links. I simplify complex topics by drawing connections and arranging them into logical sequences, which makes the material feel more approachable and easier to recall. The act of sketching and organizing concepts becomes a slow, focused task that helps me stay present instead of anxious. Start with one small diagram and build it out so studying feels more like exploring the subject than racing to memorize facts.

Aqsa Tabassam, VP of Marketing, The Monterey Company